Ava is Home with Us and Things are Going GREAT!

The last 5 days have seemed like such a blur to me. I can not begin to express all of the emotions I am feeling inside. Ava came into our lives 5 days ago and I can honestly say that I have never felt more blessed than I do right now. Although I really fought the idea of a C-section, when it came down to Ava's health, there was no question. I will be writing my birth story in a blog to come when I have more time, but for now I just wanted to let everyone know that we are all doing so great. It is so good to have Ava home with us. She becomes more beautiful each day that passes. Being a mommy means the world to me and my little family is the absolute most important thing in my life. I am still amazed how just 5 days ago this little 7 lb 6 0z girl was inside of me. I still have no idea how she ever fit into my tummy. :) Here are so more pictures of Ava. Enjoy them as much as I do. :)

As promised, here is a brief description of the last 24 hours.
First of all - Kris has done an amazing job. She was a trooper from the moment we walked into the doors of the hospital. Very proud of her.
She worked for approximately 16 hours on getting Ava out naturally. After reaching 5 + cm around 11:00, she began to plateau. With her temp. rising and an infection, Doc decided it was the best interest of Kris and the baby to complete a C-Section.
Happened very quickly after that point. Thrilling experience - little critter just about jumped out of her tummy. Very responsive and alert - decided to give one of the nurses a good spray of poop. The nurse happened to be a mother of a student/player that I have at Medford High. Couldn't believe it.
Ava measured out at 21.25 inches and was 7.6 lbs. I was one ounce off of my official guess - pretty good. She is beautiful - bigger lips and curly hair. She was hungry and latched on quickly.
Things are going well. Working on getting Kris to close her eyes - pretty tough task at the moment.
Pappa Cummins

40 Weeks 2 Days - Ava Arrives

As promised, here is a brief description of the last 24 hours.
First of all - Kris has done an amazing job. She was a trooper from the moment we walked into the doors of the hospital. Very proud of her.
She worked for approximately 16 hours on getting Ava out naturally. After reaching 5 + cm around 11:00, she began to plateau. With her temp. rising and an infection, Doc decided it was the best interest of Kris and the baby to complete a C-Section.
Happened very quickly after that point. Thrilling experience - little critter just about jumped out of her tummy. Very responsive and alert - decided to give one of the nurses a good spray of poop. The nurse happened to be a mother of a student/player that I have at Medford High. Couldn't believe it.
Ava measured out at 21.25 inches and was 7.6 lbs. I was one ounce off of my official guess - pretty good. She is beautiful - bigger lips and curly hair. She was hungry and latched on quickly.
Things are going well. Working on getting Kris to close her eyes - pretty tough task at the moment.
Pappa Cummins

40 Weeks - No Baby Yet.....But Soon!

Today is my official due date and unfortunately it doesn't look like our little Ava will make her appearance today. I had a doctor's appointment at 9:10 AM with my nurse practitioner and she was VERY surprised to see me. She thought that I was going to deliver Ava yesterday and couldn't believe I didn't. After my examination, my NP decided to get my doctor to see if he would like to start the prostaglandin gel tonight. My doctor came in and examined me and said that I was a great candidate for an induction. That made me smile because he has never said that before. He did not believe I needed the gel and said that I was a good 1 1/2 cm dilated. He felt little Ava's head and said that she had dropped from yesterday. He is going to be the doctor on call tomorrow so he will meet me at the hospital at 7 AM when I go in to be induced. His plans are to break my water in the morning and then depending on where I am at, start the pitocin shortly after. He knows that Tate and I are worried about a C-section and he told me that there are 5 factors which will determine a C-section. 1) the size of the baby - although I have not gained very much weight during the pregnancy there is really no way of knowing just how big Ava is. Hopefully she is not too big for me. :) 2) The size of my pelvis - obviously I can not control this one so it will all depend on how Ava is able to wiggle around. 3) the position of Ava - hopefully she will be able to maneuver her way down. 4) the intensity of my contractions - the doctor will be able to help with this through pitocin and 5) my ability to relax - this will be up to the me and the doctor. I plan on having an epidural so that should really help me relax a lot. But, in the end I know that I only can control so much and if I can not avoid a C-section I will be okay. Some people actually prefer it. :) I just can't believe in less than 12 hours Tate and I will be headed to the hospital. It would have been nice if Ava was born today because it is a very special day for my family. Today was my Grandma K's birthday who passed away in January and I know she has been watching out for Ava and I throughout this entire pregnancy. She meant the world to me and I know she will be there with us tomorrow as well. Ava has been moving around a TON tonight so I think she is gearing up for the big day tomorrow. Ava - mommy and daddy can not wait to hold you in our arms. There are many people out there anxious to meet you. You are already loved so much. Get some rest tonight sweetie, it's going to be a big day for you tomorrow!! Love you! Mommy

39 Weeks 5 Days - Still Pregnant and Getting Anxious

This weekend Tate and I did our best to try and stay busy because I have really been feeling anxious lately. Knowing that I could already be holding my little girl in my arms right now is starting to get to me. I officially feel like I am going to be pregnant forever. lol. I know in my heart it was the right thing to do to wait to induce, but I am becoming a little more impatient as the days go by. One thing that is very comforting is knowing that no matter what, our little girl WILL be born this week. The worst case scenario would be for us to wait until Thursday night or Friday to induce, but I have a feeling it will be this Tuesday (my original DD) or Wednesday. I went for a really, really long walk today with Bailey and I made sure to have my cell phone with me just in case. I came home and kept myself busy cleaning up the house a little and making a double batch of chocolate chip cookies (I need to have a little something when people stop by to see Ava). :) Then I made Tate dinner and headed out for another walk. You would think with all of this walking I have been doing that Ava would be ready to make her entrance, but I am starting to think she likes the walks and wants to "hang out" (literally) for awhile longer. Who knows, my tummy could be acting like a little swing for her when I walk. lol. Either way, Bailey is definitely not minding the extra walks at all. He has been a very happy puppy. Let's hope that Bailey stays that way after Ava is born. Ava, if you can hear me.....please come out, we love you so much and can not wait to hold you in our arms. Love, Mom and Dad.

39 Weeks 3 Days - No Induction Today

After debating all week if whether I should be induced today or not, Tate and I have decided to wait it out a few more days and see if Ava will come out on her own. Thankfully, the last 2 days have gone really well for me. I have been able to eat and keep everything down and I am hoping that is a sign that she is moving down and hopefully gearing up for the big day. I feel so much better now and I know I can make it a few more days. I have my next appointment on my DD of 9/9 at 7:00 AM with my doctor and hopefully I will come out of there with good news. I am pretty sure we will be induced on Tuesday one way or the other. If I am dilated to about 2-3 cm and around 70-80% effaced, they will most likely admit me to the hospital and start me on pitocin. If I have not progressed any further, then they will most likely have me go into the hospital later that night and start with prostaglandin gel first to get my cervix ready. They would then start the pitocin 12 hours later so I would hopefully give birth to Ava on 9/10. Either way, I am just so excited that we are so close to her arrival. We have waited so long for her and knowing that the end could literally be "any day" now is overwhelming. I have been watching "A Baby's Story" on cable lately and most of the time I end up crying because I am so happy for the families on there. Today I saw an episode of a women getting induced at 39 weeks and it was great because I got to catch a glimpse of what it might be like if I have to be induced. Everything went fine and that made me feel a lot better about being induced. My tummy has been cramping and aching all day so I know something is going on in there. Whether that means I will be going into labor soon or not, it's nice to finally feel some sort of progress. :)

39 Weeks - Doctor's Visit - Not Much Progress

Today I had another weekly appointment with my doctor and even though I have been walking 2-3 miles every day, I still have not made that much progress. However, since my acid reflux has been so severe the past couple of weeks, my doctor wanted to talk to me about possible induction. I am still only 1+cm dilated and 60 % effaced so I am not exactly the perfect candidate for induction. My blood pressure was significantly higher than it has been in the past and even though it was in the normal range, it is still something to watch. I have also started retaining a little fluid in my feet, ankles and hands. Fun stuff. When the doctor told me he could get me in tomorrow night to start the induction, I became a little nervous. Since Tate couldn't be there with me this morning, I told my doctor I would need to discuss this with Tate first. Tate talked to the doctor over the phone later on today and we were told that the decision is completely up to us. We also have a couple other options of waiting until Friday to start the induction with a hopeful delivery on Saturday (my doctor is on call so he would be delivering our baby which would be ideal). Otherwise I could wait until my next appt on the 9th and if nothing else has changed by then, we could start the induction then with a delivery on the 10th. There are so many decisions to be made and I am really torn. At this point, there is no medication out there that is going to help me with my acid reflux anymore and I will most likely have a hard time keeping most of my food down until I deliver. I just want to do what is best for both Ava and myself. It would be really nice to have Ava this weekend because Tate would be able to spend more time with us, but at the same time I don't want to have Ava early just for the convenience of it. One of my girlfriends had a good point though when she told me that if I am not able to sleep or keep food down, I am not going to have any strength or energy left in me to get through a long labor. I am just really confused. My doctor has reassured me that Ava is 100% ready to go and that she is fully developed now, the only thing I worry about is having an induction when my body is not ready and ending up in C-section. I really do not want a C-section at all. So, for now I have decided to wait and see what the next couple of days will bring. Who knows, Ava might surprise us all and decide to come on her own very soon. :) I will keep you all posted on what we decide. Wish us luck!!!!

38 Weeks - 5 Days - SINGLE DIGIT COUNTDOWN!

I have finally reached single digits until my due date. After being pregnant for 10 months (yes, it is truly 10 months) and thinking that the day will never come, it feels so great that Ava is only days away from being born. Today Tate and I went on another 2 mile walk and this time I had to stop 3 different times because of the strong contractions I experienced. These contractions are what I call the big-daddys, the ones that stop me in my tracks and get me to grab my belly and moan. :) Poor Tate was worried sick because he thought I might go into labor right there at the park. :) I had to reassure him that I always get contractions when I walk, so it wasn't that different from other days. However, today's contractions were a bit more intense. I felt much better having him there with me just in case. After our walk we ran a bunch of errands together and I soon started to feel very uncomfortable. Little Ava has managed to put a lot of her weight now on my pelvis and bladder and any bump in the road or quick stops make for a very uncomfortable trip. Not to mention, every time I get in and out of the car I have to rest because I get really strong contractions. On a few different times today Tate stated that he thought I was going to have Ava tomorrow because of how strong my contractions were. I still think she will hang out for awhile in my tummy, but I am not exactly sure that I will make it to my DD of 9/9. Either way, I am finally on the single digit countdown and that means she will be here with us very soon. Ava, mommy loves you so much and can't wait for you to arrive.

38 Weeks 4 Days - Day at the Race Track - Show Me Big Money

Today Tate and I decided to do something different so we went to the horse track at Cantebury Downs. Since I have been working from home now and not feeling well, it's been hard for me to do a lot of things outside so I was very excited to get out and enjoy the weather. Tate and I got to the races and found some great seats outside in front of the track. We spent time going through the different articles and experts opinions on each of the horses. It was actually really fun. One thing I realized is that my husband and I are very different when it comes to gambling and betting. I like to take the nice, safe route and pick 1-2 horses I think will win because of their stats and of the opinion's of others. Tate on the other hand likes looking at which jockey is riding the horse and he also likes to bet on the long-shot. His point is that if you pick the favorite, you won't win very much, but if you pick on the long-shot you can win a lot. Although that is very true, you still need the long-shot to win and the horse is picked a long-shot for a reason....they are not likely to win. LOL. Thankfully Tate and I worked as a team and my wins evened out his losses. :) I won $24.00 on one race and another $14.00 on a different race. Needless to say, I was VERY happy. We ended up walking out of there after bidding on 6 races only 7 dollars less than what we came with and that included food, admission and a paper. :) Pretty cheap day for this soon-to-be mommy and daddy. The only bad thing that happened was that my acid reflux starting kicking in on the way home and I got pretty sick. We had to stop at a gas station because of my stomach. I truly can't wait for the day when I can eat a meal and not have to worry if I will be able to keep it down or not. All in all, it was a great day with Tate and that is all I could ask for.

38 Weeks 2 Days - 1st Daycare Interview

Today Tate and I went on our first daycare interview. I know it seems early, but I wanted to see what is out there in case the perfect place is just waiting for us to call. We found a place 5 mins from our house. It's an in-home daycare with a woman who is just starting up her own business. She was an elementary school teacher and decided to stay at home after having her first child. She was very nice and her home was very comfortable and clean. We talked with her for awhile and we left feeling great about her. She does require a deposit to hold the spot until December, however she will use that money for our 1st and last week of daycare so we really wouldn't ever lose out on the money. We still have other daycares to interview, in fact we have another one tomorrow night.

Today I caught myself staring at my tummy watching Ava move around and wondering if she will ever come. I know it's only a matter of time, but I have waited 9 1/2 months for her arrival and now I think I am just starting to feel a little antsy. It's hard to believe that in less than 2 weeks it will no longer be just Tate, Bailey and I. I absolutely can't wait for her to come. Every time I open my blog and see her little face I smile and think to myself about how beautiful and how lucky I am. Ava, Mommy is ready whenever you are.

38 Weeks - Doctor's Appointment - No Further Progress

I had big hopes for today because I had my 38th week appointment this afternoon and I was really hoping that things have "progressed" more than last week. Unfortunately, that was not the case. I have been hoping that Ava would come a little early because my acid reflux has kicked back into high gear again and I was sick all day yesterday and up all night long unable to keep my food down. It's been a hard couple of weeks, but on the bright side, I only have 2 more weeks to go (maybe even less). I brought a laundry list of questions to my doctor's appointment today and he knew I meant business when he entered the room. :) He sat down right away so I could ask him each and every question. He is a really nice doctor and he is always able to put me at ease. After my examination, he told me that I am still 1 cm dilated and about 40-50% effaced. I discussed with him my continuing problems with acid reflux and he told me that unfortunately there isn't much I can do, but he did decide to switch my medication to another (completely safe) one. Now I will be taking this new medication 4 times a day and hopefully that will help. I am hopeful anyway. I also made sure to get the correct phone # to call when Ava finally does decide the time is right. I am trying to make sure I have absolutely everything ready. :) He told me that we will talk about possibly inducing me next week IF and that is a big IF, everything looks to be in good shape. I would have to be at least 2-3 cm dilated and 70% effaced before he would even suggest it. He has said that we just need to get this little peanut out of me so my body can return back to normal. But, I am not going to push anything. Ava is going to come when she is good and ready and unfortunately, I think she is waiting it out for a September birthday. All I care about is that she is 100% healthy.

37 Weeks 6 Days - Last Birth and Parenting Class

Tonight Tate and I had our last birth and parenting class. It was one of the most interesting classes because we had 2 couples from previous classes there with their 2 and 6 week old babies. They told us their birth stories and gave us a really good idea of what to expect and what to ask for when we go into the hospital. They both had very different stories. One was an almost picture perfect delivery and the other had an extremely hard labor process which ended up in a c-section. Hearing their stories and seeing their tiny babies really hit home with me and I just kept thinking about what it will be like when our time comes. It was so nice hearing the "real stories" of what to expect during labor and delivery and once you bring your newborn home. One of the women there said that her water broke when she was only 1 cm dilated and 70% effaced, so that really isn't too far off from me. However, I really believe Ava is going to stay tucked inside my tummy for a little while longer. I do not expect her to be an August baby, but you never know. After class we made sure to get our names on an email list so we could all stay in touch and share pictures of our little ones after they are born. This class was a long process, but it definitely helped both Tate and I prepare for our special day.

37 Weeks 5 days - Still Walking

I just finished a nice long walk with Tate and Bailey and it felt really good. It is so nice outside, around 76 degrees and it's hard to believe summer is almost over. Tate has to go back to school a couple of days this week on Tuesday and Wednesday. We have our last birth/parenting preparation class tomorrow night and although we have learned a lot, it's been a long 6 weeks at 2 1/2 hours each session. But, it has prepared me for what lies ahead and Tate has had a chance to hear about all of the things I will be going through during the labor process. We have officially finished Ava's room by putting up wood blinds yesterday and all of our bags are packed and ready to go. We even have the car seat set up and ready to go in the car as well. I'm telling you.....we are READY. :) I met my girlfriend, Dee out on Friday night for dinner and we had a great time laughing and chatting about the past. I hadn't seen Dee for over 2 years, yet when we got together, it seemed just like yesterday. While at dinner, I had a TON of braxton hicks Bcontractions and had to end up going to the bathroom 4 separate times. Dee thinks I will have Ava by Wednesday, but I honestly have no idea when our little princess will come now. It seems like every day she is moving further down, but it's hard to tell if that means anything. I will just have to wait until my next doctor's appointment on Tuesday to find out for sure how things are moving along. So, until then I am going to keep on walking (with Tate now of course) and trying to stay active as long as I don't go too far away from home. :)

37 Weeks 2 Days - Ava's Bassinet

This past weekend when I went out to lunch with my girlfriend Melissa, she introduced me to "Once Upon A Child". I still needed to find a bassinet for Ava so she could sleep upstairs with Tate and I her first few months. I knew it would be really hard to get up every 2-3 hours each night and head downstairs to Ava's room. Plus, I am going to be a new mommy so I know I would not be able to sleep knowing Ava was so far away from me. I think the bassinet is perfect. The best part was that I got a great deal on it and I was able to take the entire bassinet apart and wash it. I had to make sure Ava's little bed was as clean as possible. :) The bassinet is nice because it is lightweight and the top is removable as well so I can bring it up and down the stairs with no problems.

I find myself going into Ava's room a lot through out the day just admiring things and wishing my little girl was here. I have to admit that at times it feels like she is never going to arrive but I know in my heart that it is not much longer now. I went for a walk last night and I must have went too far because I started having really strong contractions and I didn't know if I was going to be able to make it back. I honestly even thought about asking a police officer who passed by to give me a ride home. LOL. After I waddled my way home with Bailey, I laid down on the couch and I started to feel better after about 15 min. Of course I had to call my girlfriend, Kristie to tell her what happened and to find out what was going on with me. Kristie said it could be the very beginning of pre-term labor and that it might be a sign that our little Ava is on her way. :) I am still thinking that the earliest Ava will be here will be late next week, but that is just a complete guess. From now on, I have direct orders from Tate to shorten my walks and to walk with him whenever possible. :)

37 Weeks - Officially Full Term - Doctor Visit

Well I have finally made it! I am officially full term and the doctor told me today that Ava is ready to come out. :) We have once again confirmed that Ava is in the perfect position and she is sitting low. Although I have not dilated any more than 1 cm, I was told today that my cervix has thinned out to 50%. That means I am half way there and considering that my cervix was not thinned at all last week, I think I have made a lot of progress. Tate and I were able to see Ava on the ultrasound screen today and we saw her tiny little fists right up by her face. There was a lot of vernix floating around in the amniotic fluid so that is another good sign that things are progressing. I made sure that my tummy was measuring out okay because I have been told a lot lately how small they think I am and of course after awhile, I started to worry about it. Thankfully my doctor told me that I am measuring out perfectly and that everything looks great. She just thinks Ava will be a small baby and as long as she is healthy, I am all for that. :) I am so thankful for my weekly appointments because if nothing else, they put my mind at ease. I started packing my suitcase for the hospital today and now I just need to get a few comfy clothes to wear for the days and weeks after I deliver. My doctor did tell me that there are a lot of women out there who do not dilate more than a cm before labor starts and that it was a good sign I was already 50% thinned out. :) I will just need to make sure I am not too far away from home from here on out. Come on little Ava, mommy is ready any time you are. :)

36 Weeks 4 Days - Lunch with Melissa, Ella and Evan

Today was a great day as I met Melissa, Ella and Evan out for lunch at my favorite restaurant, Jakes. It was a beautiful, sunny day and it was so nice to see all of them again. Melissa and I have a tradition of going to Jakes together and sharing our favorite turkey sandwich together. :) Ella and Evan have grown so much and Ella was amazed at how much my tummy has grown. :) I explained to her that I am going to have a new playmate for her and she was really excited. I told her that her new friend's name is Ava and that she is getting ready to meet Ella. Her eyes lit up and it was honestly one of the most precious moments I have experienced. I can not tell you how amazing it feels to know that I will soon have a little girl who I can introduce to all my friends children. Our children will be able to play together and be friends of their own. I absolutely can't wait. Since we were celebrating my birthday at lunch, I was able to share a big hot fudge sundae with Melissa and the kids. Evan was successful getting his little fingers into the bowl for some good bites of ice cream. He knows good stuff when he sees it. We had such a great day. I always love spending time with Melissa and the kids. Thank you Melissa, I had a great time! Love you!

36 Weeks 2 Days - Nursery Update - Almost Ready to Go

I think Tate and I have finally made most of the finishing touches on Ava's room. I am really happy how it turned out and it makes me feel so happy every time I go in there. The only thing missing now is our little girl. However, I think she will be making her presence before her actual due date of 9/9/08. I have been noticing a few "changes" these past few days and it just makes me realize more and more that Ava could really come at any point. Tate is hoping I hold out for at least another day so he can make it to his baseball game. LOL. I think we will be able to make that. The only things I have left to get for Ava are baby monitors for her room. I am so excited. We have waited such a long time for her arrival and knowing that it is not far away makes me so happy. I can't wait to be a new mommy and to hold my baby girl in my arms. I already love her so much. I can't imagine what it will be like the first time I see her.

36 Weeks - Doctor Visit - Progress has started

I went to the doctor today for my 36 week (9 month) appointment. Everything went really well and I found out that the process has officially started. I have begun dilating (only 1 centimeter) but the process has begun. The doctor has confirmed that Ava's head is down low and in good position. I have also been feeling a little relief from acid reflux so I am trying to take full advantage of that by eating more. :) It just hit me today that our little girl could show up at any time. I honestly don't think it will be this week, at the earliest I am betting on a couple of weeks from now, but you never know. Only Ava knows the answer to that question. Tate and I are busy finishing up getting the last few items on our list to make sure we have everything for Ava's arrival. I still have to pack my suitcase for the hospital, but I have all of Ava's things ready to go. I guess I am already starting to think like a mom and putting her little girl first. :) So from here on out, I will just need to take things day by day and see what happens. Ava, mommy can't wait to hold you in my arms. Come on out when you are ready, let's just hope it's not too long from now. :)

35 Weeks 5 Days - Couples Shower

Today Tate and I traveled to Rogers, MN to attend a couple's shower hosted by our good friends, Kristin and Ryan and Tim and Mara. It was a beautiful day and everything was perfect. It was so good being with all of our friends again and seeing all of their kids running around. I can't wait for Ava to join the group. :) We had a fun day hanging out with our friends. We couldn't have asked for a better day and I received a lot of great advice on being a new mommy and how to get through the labor process. :) Thank goodness for good friends!

35 Weeks - 4 Days - Day out with Tate

Today Tate and I had plans to spend the entire day together. We headed out on the boat in the afternoon and boy was it hot! Yes, I have still been sporting my bikini but I guess I have to be thankful I can still fit into it. Tate had to help me in and out of the boat and we put a chair in the water on a sandbar so I could relax in the water and cool off. It is really nice being able to just pack up the boat and head out wherever we want, whenever we want. After spending around 3 hours on the boat we headed back in. Tate and I rested for a little bit and then headed out to dinner. Tate managed to get the restaurant to agree to sing happy birthday to me while I was visiting the ladies rest room. Yes, it was embarrassing, but at the same time, very sweet. After dinner, we headed out to the movies to finish the night. It was a great birthday and Tate bought me a designer diaper bag, thanks to the help of Jenna helping him pick it out. :) Thanks Jenna! I love it!